Did You Actually Cheat on Your Husband or Are These Just Rumors?
“Although he did provide care and kindness as well, which was deeply confusing, this push-pull method is a well-known way to disorient the ‘target.’”
In a world where rumors and cherry-picked data often obscure the truth, I want to clarify my trafficking story, which has been twisted by deceit and manipulation for the entertainment of sadistic trolls. The short answer is ‘no’—I did not cheat on my husband—and these destructive rumors were my punishment for not complying with the cyberstalking, blackmail, and sextortion from my trafficker’s ‘network.’ Period. End of story.
The accusations of infidelity in my marriage were fabricated by Manosphere-trained Matthew, my loverboy groomer and trafficker originally from Newmarket, Ontario, Canada, but now in Washington D.C. as of mid-2023, along with an ex-friend, Jonathan, currently living in St. Charles, Missouri, who also attempted to loverboy groom me and was the one allegedly tasked with confronting me with the false accusations should I continue to not comply; he did so in my home, in front of my minor child. I'm tired of being blackmailed and ruined by weak men within the Manosphere who have to create lies about other people in order to gain control over them and exploit them, especially when both knew I am autistic. This is why I name them, because there is sufficient evidence to do so, law enforcement refused to assist, and they've made sure I can't afford a lawyer to sue them; except the difference is I don’t have to lie about people about everything—I’ll post receipts.
I met both through online gaming on Xbox, and they were later discovered to be ‘loverboy’ groomers and moles, aiming to collect personal data as ‘friends’ (which is called social engineering and grooming for exploitation). Their ‘network’ of ‘friends,’ as they called them, was allegedly within the Manosphere, an anti-feminist and dangerous network increasingly recognized over the years for its destructive impact and false, cherry-picked ‘exposures’ of women worldwide. Their goal was to use their victims for false defamation geared towards recruiting other men into these groups.
In 2015, Matthew used deceitful tactics, namely loverboy method grooming, to coerce me to meet him across international borders in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, in 2016, in order to collect more data and allegedly gain access to my living quarters while I was there to sexually assault me. Make no mistake: his nice guy façade was just that—a façade. Although he did provide care and kindness as well, which was deeply confusing, this push-pull method is a well-known way to disorient the ‘target.’ Used with other methods, like neurolinguistic programming, which they both allegedly used, it can cause many issues.
They heavily cherry-picked all the data between us and showed the edited versions to others in an effort to create an alternative reality, mislead others, and isolate their targets—myself included. I loved his mask and the façade he presented, but it was made clear that he did not love me. Publicly releasing the texts will show exactly why I, along with millions of other victims, fall prey to this loverboy ruse and why public knowledge of this process needs to become mainstream.
These warnings to others have always been given as just that—information we believe to be important to the public’s interest, not defamatory, and include evidence and the context of the evidence in a truthful manner to the best of my ability as a woman on the autism spectrum with brain damage occurring due to this long-term abuse. None of the data on my site and in my stories are faked in any way as I truly want other victims and survivors to use my experiences to solidify their own cases.
Know that both of them were given years to repent, and they chose to dig in further—this site is the end result of their choices.