Evidence: Public Statement Regarding The Crimes in Question

I find myself in a troubling position. Despite my efforts to share crucial information, my public statements have been systematically removed from search engines, allegedly by those involved in the very acts I am trying to expose. This compels me to keep bringing this information to light, as it pertains to serious crimes, including blackmail, spanning two countries where I am unable to seek justice.

The absence of support and protections has been painfully evident. Attempts to engage with "Ma**hew St**en" for the sake of resolving these matters legally have gone unreciprocated. Those who have confronted me falsely about my situation have had their details submitted to the appropriate authorities in both countries, primarily to safeguard others from similar victimization. If I must exist within this chaotic narrative, then I am compelled to assume the role of a whistleblower.

For five years, various individuals have orchestrated a campaign of blackmail against me, timing their actions to coincide with the statute of limitations. They have pressured me to confess to a distorted version of events they have created, selectively omitting key elements. In response, I am now compelled to share my truth about their actions, which have invaded my privacy on deeply unsettling levels.

These individuals have even gone so far as to record confrontations without my consent, in private spaces where I expected to feel safe, including my own homes and in front of family. This violation leaves me with no choice but to identify them publicly as individuals of interest for any investigating authorities or media who wish to look further.

I have lived as a victim of serious crimes for far too long. The option of seeking justice through conventional means has been stripped from me, and I can no longer remain passive in the face of these ongoing violations.

Public Statement

Did you think Gamergate was old news? Did you assume the trolls moved on to other topics? Unfortunately, they’re still here: the abuse marches on through 2023. Victims are too often targeted for the 'crime' of being a woman, especially if you also have autism, apparently.

For the uninitiated, ideas like Gamergate, Pickup Artistry, Red Pill, and other toxic male-centered ideologies have formed subgroups of abusers. Some, though not all, people in these subgroups will ruthlessly stalk, love con, and harass women and minorities. One such community, known as "Kiwi Farms," ghoulishly boasts about how many people they've driven to suicide through extreme psychological abuse.

Once they’ve decided to target and hurt someone, it can go on for years as they slowly destroy everything in that person's life. I wish this was just a nightmare I could wake up from. This has been my experience.

Have you ever shared intimate details about yourself with another person? Felt a trust so deep with someone you considered one of your 'best friends' that you were willing to share every facet of your truth? Have you ever been betrayed by that person? I have. I entered into a 'relationship' with someone online calling themselves "Ma**hew St**en"* from the Newmarket/Toronto, Ontario, Canada, and/or New York, United States, area in 2015.

This went on and off for many years. I was married, but my husband and new 'partner' were both aware and okay with it: we practiced ethical polyamory, or so I was led to believe. They were never once hidden from each other. Ever.

Regardless of what was later used against me, the facts are that significant amounts of communication, both in voice and text, were used to express that my husband always knew. When it first began, I thought I was lucky enough to have two fulfilling romantic relationships, as I had always wanted in my life. It wasn't long before deeply concerning red flags popped up that I did not fully grasp early enough to mitigate substantial damages.

I thought we could work through it privately, but it got so much worse.

Little did I know that many details uniquely shared and experienced with "Matthew Steven" would be at the heart of private and intimate information shared with others without my consent, even with those who have allegedly been violently abusive toward me. Before long, I was routinely targeted for extremely cruel and false public 'exposures,' stalking, mental violence, harassment, intimidation, hacking, abuse, and blackmail by 'anonymous' strangers (who just happened to have deeply personal things only he was aware of, weren’t on the devices they allegedly hacked, and also weren’t online at all).

Imagine having the most personal, intimate details of your life shared with complete strangers and your abusers without your consent.

Then, imagine these strangers showing partial truths, cherry-picked information, and outright falsehoods about you publicly, tightly cropped and misrepresented from roughly only 5% of the available data to make you seem completely morally deficient, while entirely skipping over and invalidating all the good you've done and are; then also omitting huge chunks of information that would explain a lot of the parts they are showcasing.

These deviants removing 95% or more of the related context of my words and actions have been at the heart of every 'attack' on me since this man came into my life. It's a smear campaign 'strategy' called "contextomy." It's a form of lying.

Imagine being shown intimate pictures that were told to others to be you when the receiving party knew they weren't. Imagine those pictures being shared under conditions of sexual "role playing" and then having those actions framed as something else. Imagine those strangers following you around, knowingly taking advantage of the lack of internet regulation to 'anonymously' tell everyone who can read, in some of the most toxic environments, that you're a cheater when you're not.

Now, imagine your newfound lover, from whom all these destructive rumors allegedly originated, being unwilling to end this war they allegedly started by signing anything to legally release you from these false narratives, unwilling to assist in any public statement, and unwilling to help with any part of the thousands of dollars of legal fees they forced you to incur while hiding as the people involved destroy everything in your life from maybe only 5% of the story.

Imagine him sitting on the sidelines, knowing in his heart that a lot of this was much different than is being falsely presented to the world, publicly, while allegedly telling you that you now deserve this. Imagine being helpless, knowing you'd never do any of this to him and never had, despite the false accusations.

Seems fairly strange, doesn't it? Imagine being gaslit into believing the roles were reversed through a known abusive 'technique' called "DARVO," at the behest of an online men's group that was literally teaching them how to twist the minds of their 'targets,' taking advantage of their 'conditioned' "memory anchoring" done without consent.

Imagine being told that the 'evidence' they have consists of the very things they coerced you into doing under false pretenses, adult grooming, coercion, and manipulated illusions of "safety" and "friendship." For my own safety and that of my family, I was forced to use decoy information (at the suggestion of a professional helping me expose my abusers to better understand my situation).

I shared things about myself with immaterial details changed and, occasionally but rarely, fake information with different people close to me acting suspicious about all of this to track the flow of information and destruction. This process caught exactly who we suspected: several people who insisted on framing this 'relationship' as "cheating" no matter how many corrections were made or how much proof was provided to show otherwise.

It was all extremely suspicious to many. I didn't like it and didn't want to have to do it, but I had no other good, affordable, and legal choices available to me.

This was the corner they were taught to back their targets into within these groups to cause the very traumatic reactions they did and the false confessions that could be used as 'collateral' against her. They taught that this could 'protect' them if she ever talked about all of the abuse publicly, but rarely are those behaviors a truly honest representation of her authentic character outside of the extreme stress and trauma they'd cause, seemingly for 'entertainment' and online clout.

Cherry-picked data would then be used to discredit all her good and everything she's worked tirelessly to achieve for decades of her life. These were framed as "dating strategies," but it was really just masked abuse, intimidation, and mental torture. It was only by doing this that I learned "Matthew Steven," among several others, were allegedly feeding the trolls and my former abusers who have routinely exploited me with this information for almost a decade. Yes, a decade.

In doing that, we saw several people, seemingly unconnected at first, getting in on the 'entertainment' of watching me suffer while coping with all this; none of them concerned when I almost ended my life from the horrific mental and emotional abuse. My professional said these levels of long-term vindictive, vengeful psychological warfare and conditioning aren't normal or healthy.

"How do I even begin to escape this?" I kept asking myself. He knew I was being very private regarding my 'queer' lifestyle because of the unmanageable level of fear I was facing from being 'like this' and trying to leave my traditional Roman Catholic history fully behind. They said it's not normal for the other person in the relationship to continuously frame this as "cheating" when they've knowingly been corrected on that narrative many times, yet continue to do so while claiming they are the moral one. It seemed to them that these people were allegedly trying to create evidence to form an "alternative story" with chopped-up data.

Even they were shocked when we showed them everything. Imagine being told after you were allegedly love conned by a pickup artist that they 'secretly' teach all this in seminars around the world that cost hundreds to thousands of dollars. The trainers are unlicensed men online who aren't trained in any trauma-informed mental health but are teaching these men how to manipulate a woman's mind in a severely traumatic way.

The end result is her being so traumatized that she may end up with significant and permanent mental health damages. Imagine being told these are the same men who were later banned by governments around the world from returning after being caught but are still given a platform because 'they've changed.' None of them are responsible for the medical and psychological bills that these now severely traumatized women incur. Some of their victims have ended their lives due to the trauma.

Those abusers continue to hound and threaten you as if they are entitled to your private information 'or else.' I have definitely been going through the 'or else,’ even when I didn't share any of his info with anyone until many rounds of this.

They coerce you into producing false confessions and strong reactions, mostly in self-defense against the abuse, that are then shared to discredit you. They omit their actions from the versions they tell others, along with their bad deeds and the parts where your words were only spoken or typed after long-term psychological abuse, extended silent treatments, intimidation, stalking, smear campaigns, 'disappearing' messages, hacking, and blackmail, just to name several.

You can’t escape them. This collection of misrepresentation is used to sabotage new jobs, friendships, and connections intentionally. Then the loop starts all over again.